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Delight Your Marriage | Sexual Intimacy, Relationship Advice, & Christianity

Hi, I'm Belah. Along with hundreds of thousands around the world, you will go deep into the real issues, how-tos and joys of sexual intimacy. It's playful, peaceful, purposeful, and really intimately exciting! Discover insights around godly intimacy on how men tick and how women feel! And you'll be amazed to hear the inspiring stories and advice from the expert guests as well! It's scriptural and practical. If you're a man, you'll be drawn because you want to understand your wife, how to invite her in intimacy and even your own God-given sexual desires. If you're a woman you'll understand how to enjoy and love your man through sex. Free gifts for you! If you're a woman wanting to increase your drive, get FREE resources at https://www.delightyourmarriage.com/drive If you're looking to be respected, enjoy fierce intimacy and loving being married again, have a FREE call with Belah ($500 value) https://www.delightyourmarriage.com/call
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Now displaying: November, 2020

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Nov 24, 2020

Hi there, 

 

Today is extra special because I have on the most amazing man I've ever met. Ehemm... my husband. :)

If you want to know why I am the way I am (well, regarding the generous things in intimacy), it's because this gentleman loved me really, really well and continues to every day.

 

It's not necessarily intuitive, but it is God's way.

 

This conversation will be instructive for wives -- who feel insecure and challenged by seduction -- and husbands -- who want to be pursued with playful and fierceness.

 

For men - You'll find out that gentleness and compassion are the keys to her heart as well as specifically what to say to her that makes her want to make you happy intimately. 

For women - You'll hear from a really good man, what seduction means to him and why it's important. 

 

If you'd like to get a free download of some of my favorite seduction tips, you can go to delightyourmarriage.com/tips and you'll be signed up for the Free Training on Seductive Confidence coming soon!

Blessings, 

Belah

Nov 17, 2020
As a wife, this is something I really struggled with.
 
Why would he want me to do such embarrassing things? Does it remind him of sin? I don't want to be associated with his past.
Also, it's not my personality. 
And in general, I'm not comfortable. 
 
I had SO many more hang-ups around this. 
 
But, one thing kept knawing at me. Why is this all over our society?
 
Specifically seduction. Yes, the act is in certain movies and x-rated things that I don't watch. But seduction is almost unavoidable (even in PG-13 movies). Whether it's a glance, a teasing, and revealing advertisement...it's everywhere and unavoidable.
 
It's in every culture all around the world. 
 
Yesterday, I received an email that Delight Your Marriage is ranked as the #1 Podcast in the categories of Sexuality as well as the category of Health & Wellness in several African countries which (is really cool!) means that culture doesn't make a difference.
 
These philosophies go across cultures and all over the globe.
 
Why does seduction matter?
 
This podcast is directed at wives, but if you are a husband I think you'll get a glimpse of what's holding her back. 
 
Get the Seduction Tips here and a free training on this! www.delightyourmarriage.com/tips
Nov 10, 2020
If you're new to Delight Your Marriage, this is the first episode you should listen to.
 
Many people come to my resources with a question on how to make their marriage better but they really don't know where to start. 
 
This is a rundown on the most important philosophical underpinnings of Delight Your Marriage.
 
This gives the best introduction to the foundational principles that I use with people from all over the world--by God's grace--to transform their marriages and families.
 
Just a few things included: 
  • What a husband needs and what a wife needs to feel fulfilled in a marriage
  • Why intimacy is so important to a husband and that's reflected in the brain's physiology 
  • Why, I believe, God made men & women's drives so different
  • The underlying reasons emotional and physical intimacy isn't strong in a marriage
  • When people are struggling in their marriage they often get advice which makes it all worse. What's the missing piece? Strategy.
Listen in and go to delightyourmarriage.com/resources to find out about all the courses I offer to totally transform your marriage!
 
There are courses for husbands or wives to receive the love you're craving in your marriage.
 
Blessings,
Belah
Nov 3, 2020
So, today's a pretty important day. And you may listen to this in the future which will be relevant. 
 
More than ever, our land is divided and we have strong convictions on right and wrong. In Jesus' day political issues based on power, oppression, greed, and con... plagued everyone he interacted with. They were impacted at a personal level.
 
Jesus' sights were different than those experiencing political suffering. He taught us how to love from our hearts. He brought enemies together to pursue God's kingdom over an earthly kingdom. 
 
I don't know what is going to happen in this election. I know I voted according to my convictions.
 
More importantly, I know that if the other side wins, God is still my King. He is bigger than me. His timeline is far bigger than the number of years I am on this earth. 
 
So, if the next 4 years needs to look different than I hoped, I will not take that out on God.
 
Because He knows better than I do. Instead, I will pray for those who I might consider enemies right now. I will also live in thanksgiving. It is a command far too often in the Bible for me to ignore.
 
I encourage you to not let your heart be troubled.
 
I encourage you to look like Jesus in this time.
 
Remember when Peter cut off the ear of the soldier coming to take Jesus to kill him (some might say "self-defense")---Jesus rebuked Peter and healed the soldier. 
 
I don't know what God is up to necessarily, but I trust Him. And I will be faithful to His teachings even now. 
 
If suffering is going on in your marriage, this exact message applies to you. Having hope, faith, and love--even now. It's a choice. A hard one. But the right one. 
 
Blessings,
Belah
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