It's that time of year. Happiness and fun and joy is expected. 

Is it reality for you? 

Do you have joy in your heart? 

CAN you have it? 

I want to talk about this because the holidays can be extremely difficult. And I want to invite you to think about the things you can do even today that will change your perspectives. 

How do you make your life aligned with your deepest values and highest vision? I speak specifically about tools that will help you get there.

If you'd like the Prioritize Your Life chart I talk about you can email me at belah at delightyourmarriage.com

If you'd like to listen to an extremely inspiring story of marriage and love, check out this podcast with Joni Eareckson Tada - When Disability Challenges Your Marriage 

I'd love to have you on my 3-part Video Training that will be up for a limited time: The 3 Keys To Seductive Confidence

Happy Thanksgiving!

PS Don't forget to sign up for the video training! The 3 Keys To Seductive Confidence

We argued yesterday. Knives were involved. Well truthfully, it was a disagreement at a restaurant. But the actual emotions happened way before the restaurant. My husband is on the show again (back by popular demand!) to tell how he was feeling and what he did and why.

Why is this important for your intimacy? A wife wants to make love to a man she feels safe with. If you're arguing in a way that makes her feel unsafe, then you're repelling her from the very thing you crave.

I want to share this podcast because I think we have HORRIBLE examples of marital conflict. We take our cues from movies, dramas, chick flicks and sitcoms. All of which have very unhealthy and hurtful aspects.

I want to give you a vision of a REALLY GOOD conflict. One where each of us weren't "perfect". But each of us allowed our value of intimacy, connection and love to be higher than our emotions and impulses.

I hope this gives you encouragement and inspiration in your next emotional challenge between the two of you. There's another way and there are specific tools you can use to NOT leave you or your spouse bloody and bruised rhetorically.

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If you're a wife and interested in the 5 Tips To Amazing Seduction go to www.delightyourmarriage.com/5tips

If you're a husband and interested in transforming your marriage to one of friendship and PASSION, go to www.delightyourmarriage.com/call and sign up for a FREE 40 min call ($500 value) and we will dive deep into what is blocking your intimacy and what are next steps for you! 

Your first time having sex, was it just like my experience? A bit awkward, NOT like how the movies portrayed it, and maybe even a BIT uncomfortable?

So now that you've done it a lot more, I bet what was uncomfortable in the beginning has started to feel a lot more comfortable, right? So, would you like to ENJOY it more?

Have you ever asked yourself these questions:

• Should I initiate? 
• Should I just go for it and stretch myself and seduce him?
• Is it okay for me to suddenly change and just go ahead and seduce him and be sexy?

Here's what I talk about in this podcast episode:

• How to enjoy the process of seduction and lovemaking more
• Why it's okay to be silly before being sexy
• What EXACTLY you need to do (practical tips and more!)

A lot of people say that DATING SEX is BETTER than MARRIAGE SEX. Well, that is what Delight Your Marriage wants to change.  It is our mission and we want to change it so that marriage sex is hotter, more enjoyable, and the best sex that anyone will ever have! 

Absolutely NOTHING in this life stays the same. If you choose to change and stretch yourself to become more seductive, then it's definitely okay! And you will actually ENJOY sex more. 

If that's not where you are in your marriage right now, it's okay to be gentle with yourself. God is a God of new beginnings. We can always start over and change and grow your marriage into something you enjoy and look forward to! 

Resources:

I’d love to receive your answers to this VERY QUICK survey which will help me give you the kind of content you want to hear! Go to: www.delightyourmarriage.com/seductionquestions 

Also! Get 5 fantastic and practical tips to amazing seduction here!:

www.delightyourmarriage.com/5tips

I used to think "if I just got thin enough then I'd be confident." But, then I did. And I didn't. 

Our society tricks us into thinking beauty is only a certain thing. But God made us beautiful. And when you don't love your body your chances of loving sex is far lower. 

On this episode I want to help you see more clearly and not have the inappropriate expectations of yourself that is inhibiting your joy and passion in sex. 

I also have some help for husbands on how to help their wives in this area. 

I used to be bulimic when I met my husband. He has loved me through lots of different shapes of my body and I gotta tell you, that kind of love encourages a wife to be sexually free and pleasured.

I answer:

• How can you feel more confident in your body
• Why the negativity is stealing your sex drive
• How you can conquer the inner critic
• The balance between loving your body and being healthy
• What the FIRST step is to getting there

If you'd like more specific tips on how to seduce, here's a FREE resource for you: The 5 Tips On Amazing Seduction PDF

Love, 

Belah

Also, if you are looking to get clear on what's really blocking you from having incredible intimacy, I'd like to invite you to a FREE 40-minute Clarity Call ($500 value) with me to help you uncover what is really going on. If I think you'd be a good fit for one of my programs then we can talk about that. But you'll get fantastic value either way! Schedule here!