For the past 30 years, she has tried everything to try and connect with her husband. It left her feeling lonely inside her own marriage.
Tanya is a woman who feels deeply. She is wired to feel the world and those around her in a deep, empathetic way.
But this is not the way her husband was wired. Since the beginning of their marriage, Tanya has felt a disconnect and a dismissal of her emotions.
Her husband went looking for marriage help and found the Delight Your Marriage podcast.
Through the podcast, he was inspired to join the men's program and that is when their marriage really began to change.
She was shocked when she noticed he started listening more intently, he became more tender, and they would go on walks in the park holding hands together- something that had been missing since their dating days.
This inspired Tanya to do the women's program and "jump in with both feet", willing to let this program change her the way it had changed her husband.
Now, their marriage has flourished. Tanya never thought it would be possible, but here they are, more connected than ever before.
She said she feels "let out of prison". The depression has lifted and she has hope for the future for the first time in so long.
We believe Tanya's story will encourage you and inspires hope in you for your journey!
Love,
Belah & Team
PS - If this story resonates with you and you want to see a change in your marriage as well, we would love to talk with you. Contact us at delightyourmarriage.com/cc for a completely free Clarity Call. (A call Tanya says is still impacting her even now.)
PSS - Here is a quote from a (different) recent graduate:
Before the Delighted Wife Program:
"We were planning on how to keep a family together while breaking our family up - We were at the end of ourselves and decided it was time to give up and go our separate ways."
After:
"WHERE DO I BEGIN!!! I have grown in patience, perspective, my faith and connection with God, my understanding of my husband, and peace. I have learned how to build my marriage. Building it is now a journey and no longer an intense, overwhelming mission impossible...
Biggest take away from this whole course is the GOD FACTOR. Belah always pointed us to Jesus NOT to a strategy or an idea or concept. It was directly and purely to JESUS. He was the main focus, and everything else just fell into place. It helped me to re-center everything in my life."