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Delight Your Marriage | Relationship Advice, Christianity, & Sexual Intimacy

Hi, I'm Belah. Discover with me the secrets to an incredible marriage and physical intimacy in it! Join in as I interview inspiring and amazing wives and intimacy experts who share stories of their difficulties, joys, relationship advice and secrets to a lasting marriage. I ask each guest to share advice about sexual intimacy as well! Listen in to find out how long-time wives have kept the fun, peace and passion alive!
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Feb 27, 2018

Sex is Better In Marriage. If it's better, why is there so much divorce and so many unhappy marriages? Its better but it's also harder.

Here's why sex is harder in marriage:

  1. You see the good, the bad & the ugly.
  2. You have to be vulnerable and that's messy & uncomfortable.
  3. You see them in the mundane...when you're brushing your teeth... how can they be sexy to you?
  4. You have to maintain attraction to one person
  5. You have to be intentional about passion, spice & excitement

Why sex is better in marriage:

  1. It's real. Its not a performance where you have to be perfect. It's your real heart and real body. You can let your hair down and be who you are in your sexuality.
  2. It's not going to end. So you don't have to have this fear that if you don't please him, he'll leave. Instead your motivation is to make your forever relationship amazing.
  3. You find out what he likes, and get to practice that and hone your skills on his particularities for years.
  4. No fear of embarrassing yourself. He is the safest person there is. A person who promised to love you through it all and to never leave... feeling silly is something you can do with him.
  5. Sex is spiritual. Its not just a physical experience and you get to explore that in marriage. The peace, joy and love bleeds over from life and into the marriage bed and back out into life.

Be intentional about the spice of your sex life:

I’ve released the first parts of a new course I’m really excited about: The Seduction Course.

I didn’t feel I could give the specificity I’d like to on a public platform like a podcast or website. So I’m including VERY practical understandings and examples you can use immediately in this course! 

Right now you can get the course at its lowest cost (it will go up in the following week as the 3rd part is released). Check out The Seduction Course now.

 

 

Feb 20, 2018

Main Points:

  • The safety and stability of a home is due to the spouses' generosity in the bedroom
  • Making love is God's work.
  • "Yes, God changed me. But he changed me through [our intimacy]." -my husband
  • Gen 2:24 Therefore a man shall leave his father and his mother and hold fast to his wife, and they shall become one flesh. And the man and his wife were both naked and were not ashamed.
    • God was talking about sex.'
  • What a wife needs to make love is a man living out the fruit of the Spirit. 

 

The Seduction Course Part 1 is released today!! Purchase now to have the most discounted price! (It will go up next Tuesday when I release Part 2!)

I am SO excited to share this content with you. I think it will really get you to the place of implementing and doing, practically, those things that will really make you feel powerful. Because you will know that you know how to drive him wild.

Feb 13, 2018

The specific steps to seduce:

  1. Get him to want it
  2. Tease him
  3. Give him a little bit
  4. Pull away
  5. Give him what he wants

Why Seduction is important, helpful tips on what will help you seduce and next steps.

 

The Seduction Course P1 will be released next week! Purchase now to have the most discounted price! (It will go up on Tuesday!)

I am SO excited to share this content with you. I think it will really get you to the place of implementing and doing, practically, those things that will really make you feel powerful. Because you will know that you know how to drive him wild.

Feb 6, 2018

Main points:

-God's might and glory is shown in the uniqueness of creation. And in the tiniest of details of your body. 

-The way you feel about your body affects the way you interact with your spouse and the rest of the world. 

-Children are released in their bodies. Body insecurity is learned (and its unattractive). 

-Our self-perception is tied to so many different things. Time of the month, what we've been eating for the last couple of weeks, what stresses are in our lives etc. And this affects the way we eat and look at ourselves.

-You can honor and listen to your body. But you don't have to feel pressure that you have to get "there" before you can seduce your husband and be released in your body.

-Practical tips on what you can do today to be more released.

 

Check out The Seduction Course presale here for 50% off before it goes live (very soon)!

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